{"id":430,"date":"2010-03-19T14:33:08","date_gmt":"2010-03-19T14:33:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/memorial.local:8888\/www\/430.html"},"modified":"2011-08-09T12:36:18","modified_gmt":"2011-08-09T12:36:18","slug":"culture-the-large-ivanov-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adcmemorial.org\/en\/news\/culture-the-large-ivanov-family\/","title":{"rendered":"CULTURE: The Large Ivanov Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">In the\u00a0village\u00a0of\u00a0Rubilovo in the\u00a0Pskov\u00a0region, four Romani families have lived for twenty years.\u00a0\u00a0In the past, the adults from these families worked in the kolkhoz, but now their only income is from child and incapacity benefits.\u00a0Occasionally they manage to earn extra income from working on their neighbours&#8217; plots, or from collecting scrap-iron.\u00a0<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0I came to the village with the aim of supporting one of these Roma families in court, since they are semi-literate and it was difficult for them to take on a role unfamiliar to a Rom &#8211; that of plaintiff.\u00a0\u00a0The case was that one of the residents of this village had beaten up a Romani girl, inflicting on her grievous bodily harm.\u00a0\u00a0Her family had taken the case to court.\u00a0\u00a0After the first sitting of the court, I decided to visit Rubilovo and talk with neighbours to find out their opinion of the Ivanov family.\u00a0\u00a0In spite of the attacker&#8217;s statement that the people of this Roma family were idlers and thieves, I heard nothing bad said about them in the village.\u00a0\u00a0On the contrary, the neighbours said that they gave help to everyone who asked them for it: they helped the elderly or sick to collect the harvest, plough the earth, build houses, work on their vegetable gardens, and so on.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">The Ivanov family is large, with eight members.\u00a0\u00a0According to the neighbours, the family is friendly and hard-working.\u00a0\u00a0I am a Rom myself, but do not often hear good words said about my people.\u00a0\u00a0Yet, despite the positive reports about the family, not one of their fellow villagers supported them morally after the incident in question.\u00a0\u00a0The mother of the victim was in despair and decided no longer to attend the court.\u00a0\u00a0&#8216;We are Roma, and semi-literate &#8211; how are we to compete with a man who has worked for his whole life in the kolkhoz?\u00a0\u00a0He even has some kind of medal,&#8217; she said.\u00a0\u00a0Nevertheless, I tried to support her in every way possible and convinced her not to be afraid to stand up for her rights, and to make a complaint to the court without question.\u00a0\u00a0It turned out that I was right.\u00a0\u00a0The court judged the case in favour of the Romani family.\u00a0\u00a0The defendant offered a public apology and paid a fine for infliction of bodily harm.\u00a0\u00a0Perhaps this was the first time that the Roma had felt that they were people defended by the law, the first time that they understood that their rights can and need to be stood up for in a civilised way, through reference to the court.<script src=\"\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">In the Rubilovo village I met another family about whom I want to tell without fail.\u00a0\u00a0It is a Russian family.\u00a0\u00a0Their surname is also Ivanov.\u00a0\u00a0I would like to describe the mother of the family, Tatiana Mikhailovna, who works for a very small salary as manager of a village club.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">The previous manager of the club did not allow Romani children to visit the club, was hostile and treated them with disgust.\u00a0\u00a0She knew well that Romani homes have no electricity, but picked on the children because their clothes were not ironed.\u00a0\u00a0Moreover, the tickets were often too expensive for the children to afford.\u00a0\u00a0Everything changed with Tatiana Mikhailovna&#8217;s arrival at the club.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">Discos at the Rubilovo club always go well, the atmosphere is peaceful and friendly, and there are no fights or conflicts.\u00a0\u00a0Young people even come from as far as the town of\u00a0Ostrov.\u00a0\u00a0Since the arrival of Tatiana Mikhailovna, Romani children have actively started to visit the discos.\u00a0\u00a0They no longer have the sense of being excluded, no longer dance in the corner among themselves.\u00a0\u00a0Tatiana even encouraged the Romani boy Arsen to be a DJ.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">Watching the children, Tatiana noticed the remarkable musicality of the Romani children, their striking sense of rhythm.\u00a0\u00a0She also noticed that the children always sing along to the songs that they hear at the disco.\u00a0\u00a0She organised a Romani vocal ensemble, &#8216;Roma&#8217;, which began to perform regularly at their club, even taking part in regional competitions.\u00a0\u00a0During these performances, even the villagers the most hostile towards Roma applauded warmly and shouted &#8216;Brilliant!&#8217;\u00a0\u00a0One spectator even shouted to the lead singer, &#8216;Well done, Stepan, now I&#8217;ve started to admire you!&#8217;\u00a0\u00a0Tatiana Mikhailovna knows well how important for the Romani children this success is: it awakens in them a feeling of national pride, self-respect and dignity.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">Tatiana Ivanovna tries to nurture this feeling in the Romani children in every way she can.\u00a0\u00a0In all her behaviour, she shows that she trusts them: she does not lock the door to the classroom where she leaves her bag, and she leaves open the desk with the ticket money inside.\u00a0\u00a0The children have tried to justify her trust, showing her great respect and love.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">When working with children, all kinds of situations arise.\u00a0\u00a0They need to be organised and to adapt to the discipline of work.\u00a0\u00a0This is especially the case with Romani children.\u00a0\u00a0Tatiana Mikhailovna says,\u00a0&#8216;this is a people who are too free-willed&#8217;, as it is sometimes necessary to raise her voice or stamp her foot.\u00a0\u00a0However, her relationship with the children always remains warm and trusting.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: justify;\">While Tatiana Mikhailovna and I were talking and drinking tea, Stepan, the Romani boy, arrived to visit her son and work on the computer.\u00a0\u00a0I found out that Tatiana and her son Seryozha help Stepan with reading and writing completely unconditionally.\u00a0\u00a0Before he met the Ivanovs, Stepan, at sixteen, did not know a single letter, but now he already reads fluently and has successfully learnt to write.\u00a0\u00a0Tatiana says that if Stepashka (as she affectionately calls the boy) continues to progress this well, she will start to teach him the basics of mathematics.\u00a0\u00a0During our conversation, Tatiana&#8217;s younger son, Vova, ran into the room.\u00a0\u00a0He said that Roma, Stepan&#8217;s brother, had arrived and was asking to be allowed to watch his older brother study.\u00a0\u00a0&#8216;Perhaps Roma will like it and will also want to study?&#8217; suggested the boy.\u00a0\u00a0Of course, Mama gave her permission.\u00a0\u00a0Tatiana&#8217;s husband is nothing but welcoming of her &#8216;extra lessons&#8217; with the Romani children, and supports and tries to help her when difficulties arise.\u00a0\u00a0The atmosphere in their home is very warm and friendly.\u00a0\u00a0The Romani children like to come here very much, because they know that they will always receive a warm welcome and that someone will always listen to their problems, help them, give good advice and even give them all the tea that they can drink.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0It was late, but I did not feel like leaving this house.\u00a0\u00a0It is such a pity that in our country it is unusual to meet people who are so unconditionally kind and attentive to children who are not their own.\u00a0\u00a0If only there were more such people in\u00a0Russia, and if only there were not hatred based on race and nationality.\u00a0\u00a0Russia\u00a0is our shared house, and every person is worthy of their place in this house.\u00a0\u00a0It is important to everyone, especially children, to know that they are loved and cared for, that people have an attitude of goodwill towards them, that people will always help them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the\u00a0village\u00a0of\u00a0Rubilovo in the\u00a0Pskov\u00a0region, four Romani families have lived for twenty years.\u00a0\u00a0In the past, the adults from these families worked in the kolkhoz, but now their only income is from child and incapacity benefits.\u00a0Occasionally they manage to earn extra income&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"strategy_cases":[],"campaign":[],"archive":[],"filter-content":[],"regions":[],"class_list":["post-430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"featured_image_urls_v2":{"full":"","thumbnail":"","medium":"","medium_large":"","large":"","1536x1536":"","2048x2048":"","pub-thumb":"","post-thumb":"","wcicon":"","wcsquare":"","wcsmall":"","wcstandard":"","wcbig":"","wcfixedheightsmall":"","wcfixedheightmedium":"","wcfixedheight":"","wccarouselsmall":"","wccarousel":"","wcslider":""},"post_excerpt_stackable_v2":"<p>In the\u00a0village\u00a0of\u00a0Rubilovo in the\u00a0Pskov\u00a0region, four Romani families have lived for twenty years.\u00a0\u00a0In the past, the adults from these families worked in the kolkhoz, but now their only income is from child and incapacity benefits.\u00a0Occasionally they manage to earn extra income from working on their neighbours&#8217; 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